Amazing! What does “reading the air” mean?-The true nature of the “power to read” hidden in Japanese-

Introduction

Foreigners who are studying Japanese sometimes ask me, “What does ‘reading the air’ mean?”

This word is difficult to explain in a dictionary. However, it is very commonly used in the daily lives of Japanese people. 

In fact, “reading the air (kuuki wo yomu)” is an expression that symbolizes the “culture of reading” that is unique to Japanese.

Background of the word: “air” means “atmosphere” and “read” means “to sense”

The literal translation is “reading the air (=atmosphere),” but the “air” here refers to the delicate balance of the atmosphere of the place and human relationships.

“Reading” is not simply reading the words, but is used to “sense” the other person’s feelings and the atmosphere.

In other words, “reading the air” means understanding the unspoken message and taking appropriate action.

Why is it important for Japanese people to “read the air”?

To avoid disrupting the group

Harmony (wa) is highly valued in Japanese society.

Since not destroying the “overall atmosphere” takes precedence over the individual, if someone acts without reading the atmosphere, the atmosphere can become frosty.

A culture that dares not speak one’s true feelings

In Japan, people often communicate without words, rather than saying “NO” clearly.

Therefore, it is necessary to be able to read between the lines and understand the other person’s position.

“Read the atmosphere” even in these situations! 

When everyone is nodding in agreement with your boss’ opinion during a meeting, and you are wondering whether you should be the only one to disagree 

When drinking with everyone and the mood is about to end, the moment when you think it might be better not to say “Let’s go to another bar!”

When choosing a gift, even if the other person doesn’t say anything, you can tell what they will like and choose it

When the other person seems busy in everyday conversation, leave them alone without talking to them

“Reading the atmosphere” from the perspective of foreigners 

Some foreigners who have lived in Japan are confused, saying, “I don’t know what they are really thinking” or “Why is everyone silent?” However, these exchanges of “ambience” are also part of the “non-verbal communication” that accompanies the Japanese language.

It can be said that unspoken kindness and consideration for others speak to the depth of the Japanese language.

“Reading the atmosphere” is a Japanese “power” that goes beyond words.

“Reading the atmosphere” is not just a verbal expression,

but also an aesthetic of consideration and cooperation that Japanese people value. 

And this is deeply connected to the nuances of the language, such as the pauses and implications that Japanese people possess. 

If you are studying Japanese, understanding “reading the atmosphere”

may help you realize the fascinating side of “Japanese conversation,” which goes beyond words.

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